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He's the verbal abuser and you are not the abuser, but, enough is enough. No one wants to walk around their mate like they are waiting for a bomb to go off. Even the meakest of people will get fed up and fight back. We're all just human and if someone is yelling and screaming and you can't calm them down then sometimes we lose it too. We aren't perfect. It would be a good idea for you to either seek marriage counseling or separate for a while and give each of you a chance to see what possibly could be causing him to have these outbursts. If he refuses to do anything about it, then I'd move on. Good luck Marcy

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Q: Are you the abuser or the one being abused if your husband always irritates you and drives you to a point where you are raging and yelling?
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