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What you need to do is, think of all the thoughts you've ever had about him, write them all down, then put the paper (and any photos) in a bin and burn them (safely!). Next, you need to go and get your hair and nails done, then show up at work looking and feeling fabulous. The next step, while he's looking on jelously, is to flirt with new men, there's no need to form a relationship with them if you're still feeling too raw. Making him see what he's missing will make you feel powerful, and you can see what a loser he really is! Good luck!

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