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If you lightly push your spouse after many years of marriage is it fair to be labeled a physical abuser?
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∙ 17y ago
Only your your spoouse can answer this, reguardless of how long you are married, shoulld women tolerate this. There is no excuse for ANY FORM OF PHYSICAL, VERBAL ,OR OTHER ABUSE. As a man you should know that, your wife deserves your respect at all times. Mabye your wife is asking you to get help, sort out your own problems and be the man you were 27years ago.Having experieenced domestic violence myself' leaving a marriage, may I wish you luck. If necessary go for counselling,apologise and mean it GOOD LUCK I would say, that would be an accurate description, yes. Whatever the circumstances are that lead up to the "pushing", there is obviously something seriously wrong, if one can push the other. Get some help, now. No one deserves to be physically intimdated or pushed, hit, slapped, punched, bitten, kicked etc etc.
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Is your spouse overreacting by calling you a physical abuser when you only lightly shoved her once?
There are many ways a woman can be physically abused that do not include hitting. http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm#definition
What are the conditions that a church grant annulment of a marriage?
Before consummating marriage if their partner is an abuser or if they the don't want to have any more children.
If your an emotional abuser what causes them to leave?
the victim or the abuser? emotional abuse cuts deeper than physical abuse. it has to do with manipulation. though emotional abuse and physical abuse ususally go hand in hand.
Is it possible for an emotional or physical abuser to love someone?
I dont think an abuser loves himself so he cant love. I just left the man after 6 yrs of trying
Why report a spouse as an Abuser if there is not one shred of evidence to support such an accusation?
You don't need physical evidence for proof. Just the fact that your afraid of your abuser is enough to get the law involved.
What is the jail sentence for a physical abuser?
It varies, depending on the jurisdiction, the actual abuse, and whether or not there were previous incidents.
Is there hope that an abuser can change and you can still have a good marriage?
You two should seek counseling. Good luck and God Bless:)
Is it common for the abused victim to be smarter and better looking and more socially accepted than the abuser?
Yes. But it is also common for the abuser to be all of those things. Abusive realtions are common, physical and verbal, romantic and non.
What mental and physical signs are related to Stockholm Syndrome?
Positive feelings by the victim toward the abuser/controller Negative feelings by the victim toward family, friends, or authorities trying to rescue/support them or win their release Support of the abuser’s reasons and behaviors Positive feelings by the abuser toward the victim Supportive behaviors by the victim, at times helping the abuser Inability to engage in behaviors that may assist in their release or detachment
How can I get a divorce in an abused marriage?
First of all you need to get yourself somewhere where you are safe from your abuser. You then need to get help from an attorney (lawyer) to advice you have to go about getting your divorce.
Is your wife mentally abusing you by reporting you to the police as a physical abuser when you are not?
Maybe it will help if you define what a physical abuser is. I am not judging you, but your question leaves too many possibilities. If you define a physical abuser as a man that punches a woman more than once, then you do not consider yourself an abuser. However, this is denial to make yourself feel better. A physical abuser is a personn MAN or WOMAN that hits a person in any way more than once. Hitting includes, spitting on, chasing, cornering, towering over, throwing or threatning to throw an object, punching, grabbing, slapping, restraining. In addition, it is abuse if you threaten any of those actions. Emotional abuse usually comes before physical abuse. Emotional abuse includes yelling, swearing, belittling, name calling, gaslighting, headgames, forgetting, discarding, ignoring (silent treatment), gossiping, neglecting and many more forms. Please read about the cycle of abuse on google. You may be an abuser. If you want to keep your marriage intact its best you acknowledge this problem. Most women do not go and tell police they are abused by a husband if they are not. It takes a real man to admit he needs help and a useless one to continue to abuse a woman. If legal steps have already been taken, it is up to the police, a judge, and possibly a court appointed psychologist to make a determination of what is actually going on in the home between the couple. This is not to say that some people do not falsify claims of abuse--but in many cases, the abuser continues to deny his/her actions, even when there is clear evidence of physical abuse going on. This is not the time to worry about your wife's motives--if you are insistent on proving to the police and the court that you are not an abuser, I would suggest moving out of the marital residence, going to counseling, and looking for legal advice from a family law attorney. Do not contact your wife or any of her family, do not make threats of any kind.
Was David Pelzer a child abuser?
No he is not a child abuser.
