Should one see their daughter every other weekend even when the mother and her family threatens and bashes the father in front of ones daughter?

Answer 1

Let me make sure I have this right, so I don't answer the wrong question. I'll use fake names. :) Should Suzie see her daughter Allie every other weekend, even though Suzie threatens and bashes Allie's father Luke. If that's what you were asking, then no, I don't think she should see her daughter that often. I think the priviledge should be taken away until the mother learns to control herself. Then she should be allowed to visit under the supervison of a court official. If the mother stops abusing the father, then she should be able to see the daughter unsupervised, but supervision should be immediately resumed if the abuse continues. Not only is it not fair to the father, but it also has a very lasting and very negative affect on the daughter. I don't know how old the daughter is in this case, but no one should witness abuse of their father/mother, especially if it's done by the other parent. That's teaching someone that abusing your spouse is okay, and they will more than likely do the same to their spouse later on in life. Good luck!