It's about control. Doesn't it feel like he's in control over YOU when he does that. Don't tolerate it. Get out before it turns into something worse. The other poster is correct! You dared to counterman his way of thinking. He is controlling you because your comment could have been correct and his wrong and he knows it. Run!
It is a strong person who can recognize a terminally ill parent who has been abusive to them and yes, it is possible and mature to see the abusive treatment as part of that terminally ill disease.
Get a new copy beacause the data on the disk was corupted from neglagent and abusive treatment.
First, thank God for small mercies. Then treat him with the same courtesy you would reserve for a welcome guest, no more, no less. Ideally without a trace of subservience or resentment. (If he were not abusive I would suggest giving him the silent treatment in return, but it is NEVER wise to antagonise an abuser.)
Heathcliff endured abusive treatment living in Thrushcross Grange which drove him to run away and pursue his vengeance
If you're in a relationship with an abusive man, you should just break it off completely, and leave. There is almost no way for you to mend his abusive ways, and chances are you are going to end up severely hurt, or perhaps even dead, if this goes too far. There is no way to correct people like this, and there is obviously something very wrong. Break it off. Now. You won't change him. Just get away from the situation. That'sthe universal advice given in any case involving an abusive spouse.
It is important to exit an abusive relationship carefully. Slavery is abusive.
In Massachusetts, the grounds for divorce include adultery, impotency, desertion for one year, cruel and abusive treatment, habitual drunkenness, and non-support.
you must get out of abusive relationships. Boyfriend must never be abusive !
"Lopes was often vocal about her personal life and difficult past. She readily admitted that she had come from an abusive, alcoholic background and struggled with alcohol problems herself. " http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lisa_Lopes
Dutton's theory of traumatic bonding deals with abusive relationships. Dutton defines Traumatic bonding as a situation in which powerful emotional attachments develop from power imbalances and intermittent good-bad treatment. Both of these specific features are commonly seen in abusive relationships.
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The ability to be abusive is not determined by gender, it is determined by personality. Both males and females can be abusive.