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I will never say anything is impossible. I will say...most people don't change too easily. Abuse of a spouse is a power thing...and the desire for the same level of power will always be there. Once someone has crossed the boundaries into the disrespect it takes to abuse someone else...it's very hard to go back. No matter how hard one tries. Past instances I've seen show...even if the abuser tries hard to change...and is on their best behavior for a while...they will eventually go back to abusive practices.
I agree with the previous response. Anyone can change but it takes a GREAT deal of work, honesty within yourself and the ability to face the truth of what type of person you are. People do not change without real work whether they are abusive or not. It is only when the abuser sees how destructive their pattern of relating is can change occur. They have to stop traveling the smooth road of denial and turn onto the rough terrain of accountability. God Bless
Depends what are the cause and source of the abuse. If the abuser suffers from a personality disorder, for instance, the prognosis is poor.
Well I shamefully admit that I was an abuser. I emotionally and verbally abuser her for most of our 5 yr marriage. She left me and at the time I had no idea the level of abuser I was. I love her very much and still do. I was so ashammed of what I had been like toward her. First things first, to answer the question.....YES...but it does take a great deal of effort and desire. I have been involved with several group and one on one therapy sessions. I have dropped my pride and really allowed myself to become vulverable. It has been the most painful experience of my life. Thing is, I will continue to learn,grow,change,develope, and become a much better man, father, husband, and son. I am ashammed of the attitudes and behaviours I demonstrated towards her. I have only myself to blame and knowing this I wanted to change for me.I will pray,hope, and maybe with time will be given the opportunity to regain her love and trust. I never meant to be that way, I honestly didn't know how or why I was being. When I discovered it, I fell to the floor and cried like a baby, even after she left. I couldn't believe I had been so cold and demanding. If a man is sorry and really allows therapy to sink in, YES change is possible. My only question is......."is it too late for her to ever love and or trust me again?"
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What is the statistic of women who abuse men?
There are no true statistics of women who abuse men because decent men who know they shouldn't hita woman or be verbally abusive back to their spouse do not report abuse as often as women for fear that they will be labeled as being weak. Men don't talk to other male friends about being abused as most men think they should be able to handle a woman. Easier said than done!
At a company fish fry, ½ in attendance are employees Employees’ spouses are 1/3 of the attendance What is the percentage of the people in attendance who are not employees or employee spouses?
At a company fish fry, ½ in attendance are employees. Employees' spouses are 1/3 of the attendance. What is the percentage of the people in attendance who are not employees or employee spouses?
Which of the following disorders is more common among men than women?
Muscle Dysmorphia, Anorexia Athletica, and Steriod Abuse affect more men than women. Body Dismorphic Disorder (BDD) can affect men and women equally.
What are the statistics for abused men?
It's only been in the past few years that the battered male syndrome has gotten serious attention. The latest percentage of battered men was placed at approximately 36% or roughly 835,000 of the 2.3 million abuse cases reported yearly. Researchers believe that those figures are far from accurate for the obvious reason that most men are very reluctant to admit they have been victims of abuse. See related link Annette's Story
Why does it pain when women kick men in groin?
when anything that is a hit to a men groin is because it is a sensitive place for males ( im guessing you're still young) if u r a guy then you will know when the time is right if you're a girl don't abuse this power
Why does your husband spit on you?
This is usually a form of domestic abuse and is not acceptable in today's society. In some Middle-Eastern cultures, men spitting on women symbolises the mens dominance and control over the woman. Even though it's not physical abuse, it is still a form of mental abuse which aims to make you feel belittled or powerless over the man. Times have changed since it was believed to be OK to abuse spouses. Nowadays there are very strict consequences for men who abuse their wives.
What are the conditions under which men remarried-?
Men who had lost their wives or men who were never able to get a certain sexes remarried.
Why should there be punishments for animal abuse?
Because it is CRUEL! Besides, people who abuse animals are also more likely to abuse other family members such as their spouses, lovers, or children.
How many spouses did Cleopatra have?
Cleopatra had only two spouses and they were both her brothers. The others were side men.
How do Kurdish men treat their spouses?
Kurdish men, like individuals from any culture, treat their spouses in various ways that can vary depending on the individual and their beliefs. Some Kurdish men may treat their spouses with love, respect, and equality, while others may have different attitudes and behaviors towards their partners. It is important to remember that generalizations about a group of people's behavior towards their spouses may not apply to every individual within that group.
Who abuse more?
It depends on the type of abuse. Verbal abuse tends to be women a bit more than men and physical is definiately men more than women. It depends on the type of abuse. Verbal abuse tends to be women a bit more than men and physical is definiately men more than women.
Why don't men go through abuse?
because who is their to abuse them.
In what country do the men walk ahead of their female spouses?
If your a PIMP that's what you do!
Can guys change their last name to their spouses?
yes
Who abuse more children - men or?
It would depend on the type of abuse. Verbal abuse may in fact be women, but physical and sexual would most certainly be men.
Who abuse more children - men or women?
It would depend on the type of abuse. Verbal abuse may in fact be women, but physical and sexual would most certainly be men.
Is domestic violence different from animal cruelty?
Yes. Domestic violence refers to abuse of humans within the home (to spouses or childen, for example), while animal cruelty refers to the abuse of animals anywhere.
